My friends are great. They are often the source of the biggest blessings in my life and it seems like every day I find a new reason to be grateful for them. It is wonderful to know that I have people who I can turn to in good times or in bad; friends who will be there for me even if I don’t know what I need. We have fun together and just generally enjoy sharing life with one another. We love one another and they mean more to me than I can ever say.
One of the best things about my friends is that they are rarely difficult to love. Sure, we all get on each other’s nerves from time to time, but when push comes to shove we know that we’ll be there. This is something that we value and cherish, and I’m grateful that it is this way. I’ve come to realize though loving these wonderful people is nothing to be commended for. It’s easy to love them. They contribute to my life, and I genuinely enjoy their company. It’s the people who aren’t so easy to love that pose the greater challenge.
Thomas a Kempis stated, “It is no great matter to associate with the good and
gentle; for this is a naturally pleasing to all, and everyone willingly enjoyeth peace, and loveth those best that agree with him. But to be able to live peaceably with hard and perverse persons, or with the disorderly, or with such as go contrary to us, is a great grace, and a most commendable thing.” It’s easy to love those who love us; it’s harder to love those who make life difficult.
I plan to continue to love my friends fiercely. They deserve nothing less. But I hope that as Christ showers me with His love, I will become a reservoir of His grace to others. After all, He couldn’t have found much that was lovable in me and that didn’t stop Him from dispensing His grace.